Tuesday, February 28, 2012

What I know about MARS?

MARS~ I'm not talking about planet mars literally, or MARS chocolate bar. Noppady nope~ Remember the famous book entitle WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS & MEN ARE FROM MARS. In my opinion, it juz an exaggeration to show contradiction between male and female.Yeah i'm gonna share my opinion towards Men.

Yeah this book, I've read it....few pages :p
In relationship matter towards guys, I am the last person on earth have a right to talk about it..but to talk about them I'm pretty sure I am almost the right person to share my thoughts because I grow up around men in present and they were boys in the past. Yeah for sure it is different because they are my flesh & blood, but still they are male. Ok to be fair, to make my opinions worth taken for, I have boys as friends. Not boyfriends juz a male as a very good friend. People said possibilities for a girl to fall for the person who shares a lot of things with them is high. I dont denied it, for some people...but for me I feel blessed or thankful because these guys chose me to share their stories. I learn a lot about male from them.

Who says we learn or know more about guys if we being in a relationship with them? In relationship with a guy you didn't know his inside out feelings because guys have ego. They not gonna tell every single detail of their anxiousness to their girlfriend, it would make them less hero in front of their girlfriends. Am I right? *sorry for talking like "Miss She Thinks She Knows Everything"

Frankly speaking I respect Men more if they admit their wrong in past rather than he acts innocent but as a matter or fact he is not. Wrong means they tell me about things they regret the most, dark history everyone have it right? When he have a guts to reveal his dark past it means that he have take a huge step to not to be him in the past anymore *ayat cam keling

What I try to convey here, he wants to change and become a better person. Everytime I met this kind of guy, it opened my eyes, not necessarily a person who was a jerk cannot become a decent guy in present.( excuse the expression) 
Everyone deserve a 2nd chance. I'm glad this is the way I learn about opposite gender rather than being in love and act stupid * I become stupid if i'm in love, not like other girls are more rational.

Moreover, I love to listen from guys side rather than girls because it is less emotional. I listen to my friends and my brothers stories. Maybe from that I can apply in the future, the'do' and 'don'ts' in dealing with guys.

Sometimes I love being around these guys because they have nothing to hide from me. They show their true colour. Not all girlfriend knows what is playing in their boyfriends head right? Coz some girlfriends cannot take the fact of what their boyfriends think about. I am almost 20, gonna leave my teenage life soon, somehow I think a lot about reality of adult life. It is not simply 'I'm into that hot guy, he have to become my boyfriends.' That is so high school.
They got what I want in a man
These boyfriends and girlfriends thingy might be not suit for me. Maybe its not my thing. I attracted to guys but that's it. Let my parents decide or if any guy take me seriously, he can straight away see my dad. Not me. Yeah sound conventional, but I prefer that way. At least for now~

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